Tuesday, June 25, 2024




Serendipity is the fortunate discovery of something valuable or fortunate that you weren’t actively seeking. While it is unpredictable there are ways to nudge yourself in the direction of more frequent and impactful happy occurrences.

Here is how I use the Pareto Principle to invoke Engineered Serendipity encounters.

The Pareto Principle, also known as the 80/20 rule, states that roughly 80% of the effects come from 20% of the causes.  Stated otherwise, 80% of results come from 20% of the efforts.  The 20% are known as the “vital Few”.  Hence, I apply this principle to identify areas of my life where a little effort (20%) can yield a high chance (80%) of serendipitous encounters and outcomes.

Eighty percent of our achievements come from 20% of our time.

The 80/20 rule is regarded as a general framework, and the specific applications may vary (70/30 or 90/10) depending on any person’s areas of interests and goals.

Engineered Serendipity is the concept of creating circumstances that increase the likelihood of encountering fortunate discoveries or happy accidents.   For example, you, a literary type, go out for a walk, not looking for anything, when you stumble on a hidden gem of a bookstore you never knew existed. That's kind of the vibe of engineered serendipity.

The key is to identify areas where a small investment of effort (“vital few”), can yield a high chance of serendipity encounter. By being intentionally expectant, open, and persistent, we significantly increase the likelihood of encountering positive surprises and unexpected fortunate opportunities in our life.

Serendipity is a mindset.

There are three top promising areas in our lives are conducive to valuable serendipity encounters:

1)   Social Interactions and Social Networking.

The quality of our lives comes down to the quality of the people and experiences that fill it.

    * The 20% Effort.   In my social life I focus on developing relationships with a curated group - the vital few – (20%) of friends, colleagues, acquaintances who teach, challenge and inspire me.  I attend events they recommend, introduce them to my networks, and schedule more one-on-one time with them for lunch or coffee.

    * The 80% Serendipitous outcomes.   This focused effort with a select smaller group of people increases the chance of unexpected new social connections, project collaborators, or enhanced new introductions to added new people within their circles of friends and colleagues.

Most everything comes to us from other people.


2)   I Open My Mind for Continuous Learning and Study:

    * The 20% Effort:  I identify and select 1-2 topics that truly pique my curiosity and enhance my professional skills. I try to continuously upgrade my insights and sagacity talents. I expand my knowledge by reading books and learning a second language. Attending public talks, seminars, or joining online communities and classes are common modes of continuing education.

    * My 80% Serendipity gain:   By immersing myself in these areas of interest, I've encountered related content, events, and teachers I may have otherwise missed. This leads to unexpected learning opportunities or collaborations. I acquire new skills, participate in projects all of which scales and enhance the quality of my serendipity encounters.


3)   Adventurism and Exposure to New Environments:

    * The 20% Effort:   I dedicate a fraction of my time to exploring new places (museums, parks, workshops).

Travel to foreign countries.  I always ensure that my passport is updated and valid.  Trying new and different activities (volunteering, joining a club).

    * The 80% Serendipitous Rewards:   Stepping outside my local Comfort Zone increases my chance encountering unexpected new people, ideas, and opportunities that may not have come my way otherwise.

Say it Again – the quality of my life comes down to the quality of people and experiences that I surround myself.

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Personal Habits, Activities and Methods to Experience Serendipity.

My advice - Become a Curator of Your Time:

The most precious asset we have is the time of our life.

The challenge is productive use of Our time.

Shift your thinking – 80% of our results and enjoyment of life comes from 20% of the time we used.  Twenty percent (20%), is the flashing moment of inspired  sagacity – when we recognize the serendipitous encounter for what it is – Serendipity.

The first step is to become aware of how we spend our time currently. Track your activities for a week to identify areas where you can free up even a small amount of time (the vital 20%) for centered engineered serendipity efforts. This doesn't have to be a drastic change; even a reallocation of an hour a week can make a significant difference.

Ingenious – there is no shortage of time when we use our time productively.


I Set Loose Intentions:

I do it before venturing into a new environment or activity.  I carry a loose intention in my mind. This can be something as simple as "meet someone new in this field" or "learn something unexpected today."

Having a hovering guiding principle helps me, flexibly, to open to relevant opportunities while remaining adaptable and receptive of the unexpected.


I Embrace the Power of an Open Mind:

An open mind runs at a higher gear.

I keep an open mind more than I ever did before.  The key ingredient to engineered serendipity is a mindset of receptivity. I’m willing to try new things.  Being mindful of the present keeps me open to unexpected conversations, invitations, flirtations or detours from my original routines. Sometimes, the most serendipitous encounters happen when we least expect them.

Strike up a conversation with folks who appear interesting.  Explore unexpected exhibits at the trade show, museum, and public fairground. I’m the first to introduce yourself to new people. It was hard for me to break out of my incarcerating Comfort Zone, but now I introduce myself and shake hands with everyone seated around my lunch table.  I introduce myself using the James Bond style: “Lender. Mandy Lender.”  As I project this confident self-introductory style, the other party is left to wonder: ‘How did I miss him until now?’

Expect hidden connections or opportunities that might arise.

Nurturing the Seeds of Serendipity:

Having been introduced I don't let chance encounters fizzle out. I exchange contact information with people I meet. I follow up on interesting discussions and take initiative to nurture on the new connections. This involves attendance at social, cultural and commercial events that others recommend.  I may simply send a follow-up email to express your continued interest.

Have you read the ‘Never Eat Alone’ text?  Go study it!


Problem-Solving and Creativity.

Master Core Creativity Techniques (investing 20% Effort).   This will equip you with a solid toolkit of problem-solving frameworks, and tools for brainstorming techniques.  Having a strong foundation in these core methods allows you to approach challenges strategically.  Doing that yields 80% of solutions to later challenges.

Let Your Mind Wander (that is yielding 80% Serendipity).   Sometimes the best solutions come when we step away from the problem entirely. I take breaks to recharge, engage in hobbies that stimulate different parts of my brain, do yard work around my farmhouse, or spend time in nature.    I do physical work around my farmhouse and spend time outside in nature.  I take a refreshing nap if I feel like it.  This downtime allows our subconscious to make unexpected connections between seemingly unrelated ideas, fostering a creative breakthrough when we least expect it.

By taking these steps, we increase the likelihood of serendipitous encounters to blossom into long-term friendships, friendly collaborations, or perceive new career opportunities.

The ideal balance between focused effort and serendipitous exploration will vary depending on your specific goals and personality.

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1. Learning and Exploration:

Focus on High-Quality Resources (20% Effort).   I dedicate time to curate a select group of reliable sources (books, courses, podcasts, AI agents) tailored to my interests. This intellectual core collection provides a strong foundation of knowledge and sagacity.

I rely on and trust the Power of Randomness (that 80% Serendipity).    Here's where the magic happens.  I step outside my Comfort Zone and actively seek out experiences that expose me to a wider range of ideas and people. I attend conferences on unfamiliar topics, join online communities with diverse perspectives, or participate in workshops that pique my curiosity.  Maven.com is one example. This deliberate "randomness" can spark unexpected connections between seemingly disparate concepts, igniting a spark of creativity or lead me down a fascinating intellectual rabbit hole.


2. Networking and Relationships

I Cultivate Meaningful Connections (20% Effort).   I invest time, money and energy in building strong relationships with select groups of individuals who inspire and support me. These core connections provide a foundation of trust and reciprocity.

I Expand My Network Through Serendipity (80% Serendipity).   I put myself in situations where I can meet new people from various backgrounds. I seek to attend events with a diverse guest list, such as charity dinners, business lunch meetings, and strike up conversations with strangers at gatherings.  I consider volunteering for causes I care about.  These interactions lead me to serendipitous connections and collaborations I never anticipated. Doors open  to new opportunities or simply enriching my life with fresh perspectives.

3. Adventurism is a Mind Opener.  

Have you visited Alaska lately? Go visit the South Sea Islands. Visit the Amazon. Africa. 


Why these areas?

The areas described above are fertile ground for Engineered Serendipity because they all share a common thread:

They thrive on a delicate balance between intentionality and openness to chance encounters.

By focusing our initial effort on building a solid social foundation (a 20% investment) - we free up mental space (an 80% result) to be receptive to the unexpected opportunities that serendipity encounters brings. The "80% Serendipity" activities in turn open a larger pool of potential connections and ideas, increasing the likelihood of a surprising and positive outcome.


Bonus Tool.   Track your serendipitous experiences!  Keep a journal or use a note-taking app to jot down unexpected encounters, interesting ideas, or helpful connections.  Reviewing these notes regularly helps you identify patterns and refine your approach to engineered serendipity over time. By consciously creating opportunities for serendipity and reflecting on the results, you significantly increase the likelihood of experiencing those fortunate moments where surprise and inspiration collide.

Richard Koch who re-invented the 20th century 80/20 principle says that ” Successful people typically don't plan their success.  Instead, they develop a unique philosophy or attitude that works for them. They stumble across strategies which are shortcuts to success, and latch onto them. Events hand them opportunities they could not have anticipated.”  This last statement is another way of defining Engineered Serendipity.

Photo credit - Richard Koch - back cover book.


© Mandy Lender, MD  2024

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Friday, June 7, 2024



The short answer is - the Democratic National Committee is running scared of RFK Jr.  

The Democratic National Committee called Kennedy a “useful idiot”.

Calling a political opponent by vulgar language does not attract votes.

It really doesn’t matter how many convictions Biden’s main opponent is charged with. What matters is that the DNC has ill-treated and lost the only Kennedy Family member who counts politically.

The DNC lost its historic sparkle and dash. The DNC used to be so much cooler, but now it's kinda dull.

On next Election Day, the DNC will have lost a traditional democrats’ vote-getter. Missing those democrats’ votes will tip the scale in favor of the other opposing party presidential candidate.

Simple Math. Duh.

Photo by Gage Skidmore

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The Biden trial started Monday, June 3, 2024 in a Delaware court.



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